The Male Nipple Orgasm

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A quick internet search concerning the topic of the male nipple or breast orgasm is futile and returns nothing but pornography. There are a couple of reasons why the male nipple orgasm is not common. I will refer to this type of orgasm as the male nipple orgasm because men don’t have breasts like women do and calling it the male breast orgasm just makes it sound a bit odd, even if it is more technically accurate. Like the female breast orgasm, the male breast orgasm originates from the nipples, but before we discuss the specifics of this obscure orgasm, let’s first talk about why it is so obscure.

I am not a doctor or a scientist of any sort and so I cannot say how similar or dissimilar female and male nipples are; however, these are both erogenous zones and highly sensitive. Each person has different things that turn him or her on and different levels of sensitivity in these erogenous zones. So, why are a man’s nipples so neglected? There is a lot, I mean a lot, of information on the penis and less information on the rest of the body when it comes to sexuality.

Reason number 1 why there is so little mention of the male nipple orgasm is because of the excessive focus on the penis. Entertainment, whether adult or otherwise, is focused on the penis, on the bulge in the pants.  Books for women that are meant to teach them how to please their male partner have more information on how to handle the penis than how to connect with their partner. I am not sure, as a woman, but men have feelings and desires too, right? It is not so much about expressing those feelings and desires but more about being aware and in tune with them. Being comfortable with having your nipples stimulated is a major step to having a more fulfilling sexual life. The excessive focus on the penis and having it be the end all of sexual pleasure closes off other possibilities for pleasure.

The penis is the masculine symbol, the symbol of strength, and nipples are generally related to women. Meaning that a woman can’t show her nipples but it is no problem if a man walks around in public without a shirt. The breasts, chest area, and nipples are areas related to femininity and that causes a mental barrier in men. A man might not be comfortable having his nipples excessively stimulated because he may fear being accused of homosexuality, being too feminine, and ejaculating prematurely. Premature ejaculation is the second reason why the male nipple orgasm is not so common.

tumblr_n1tatbV2WF1qzlro6o1_500It is thought that the male orgasm is just reached through penetration. Men are capable of having multiple orgasms. Again, how it feels and how similar it is to multiple female orgasms is not for me to say. But if a man is getting very aroused by having his nipples stimulated and he feels he is nearing his orgasm, which for most means that he feels he will ejaculate, he will pull away from the sensations, keeping himself from having a nipple orgasm. Fear of ejaculating prematurely like this, which does not really count as premature ejaculation, will keep a man from enjoying his sexuality and having this type of orgasm. Fear of not being able to regain his erection will definitely keep a man away from having this experience.

Now, how do you achieve this nipple orgasm? The body and mind connection is important. Knowing what you want is the first step. If you know that you want to have this type of orgasm, a nipple orgasm, then there is a possibility that you can have this type of orgasm. Why? Because your mind won’t shut off or you won’t rush to stimulate another part of your body to reach a stronger and more familiar orgasm. In a woman, the breast orgasm feels slightly different from any other orgasm. The same can be said about men. The male nipple orgasm will feel slightly different from a penile orgasm. Being aware of your sexual desires will open you up to deeper sexual awareness. Having a more profound sexual understanding of your own body and of your sexuality does not make you more feminine or gay: it brings confidence and allure to your being, whether you are gay or heterosexual.

After being aware of your desire to have a nipple orgasm you need to be able to let go of the orgasm. This means that you have to let go of the fear of ejaculating prematurely, let go of your fear of not being able to regain your erection, and of what your partner thinks. If you are with your partner, he or she needs to be on the same page. He or she can help you reach the nipple orgasm by stimulating you. If you are going to have a nipple orgasm it most likely means that you will ejaculate when you do so. Unless you have learned how to have multiple orgasms without ejaculating, then you will ejaculate when you reach the nipple orgasm. Your partner needs to know and want this.

At first, reaching this type of orgasm will probably not be so easy. If you’ve never experienced it, then it probably won’t happen the first time you try. What you can experience the first time is a more intense erection. That would be because of the pent up sexual energy and desire. You might also experience more intense ejaculation.

How to stimulate the nipples. Everyone likes different things, but orgasm is about reaching it, working up to it. Try starting around the neck, behind the ears, the shoulders. Work from the distance to the nipples. Avoid stimulating the penis and focus on the sensations in the chest and nipple area. This way, the sensations become intensified and the closer you get to reaching orgasm. The more you touch your nipples, the more your partner stimulates them, the more sensitive they become. Like in the female breast orgasm, near constant stimulation will provide the best results. The most important thing to do is to let go of the orgasm and let it happen.

Do it to your partner. If you’ve noticed your partner’s sensitivity and propensity to having a nipple orgasm, then use that to your advantage. If you have long hair, use it in the early stages of stimulation to awaken the nipples. Then use your hair again when the arousal is getting frenzied. Use your mouth and tongue, but not only on his nipples. If you are a woman, use your breasts to tease him. Regardless if you are a man or a woman, rub your nipples on his. Think of this as being two live wires rubbing together and causing sparks, very pleasurable sparks.

Letting yourself enjoy your body fully is how you connect with yourself more profoundly. Hopefully, scientists will also start putting men in MRI machines (like they do to women) and telling them to stimulate themselves so that we can all have a more rounded understanding of human sexuality. The human body is complex, beautiful, sexy, and we are not done exploring it.

 

Namaste.

 

 

 

 

Photo Credit: Melissa Portan

Photo Credit: Melissa Portan

 

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6 responses »

  1. I actually have amazing, out of body, totally euphoric male nipple orgasms and if done right you can reach sexual highs you never dreamed of!

  2. Nipple orgasms are amazing.
    The sensual connection between my nipples and testicles is out of this world. I rub my nipples and my groin is on fire with the most intense pleasure.
    Several times more intense than regular masturbation.

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