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Twin Souls: When Reunion Doesn’t Happen

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wpid-unsplash_women-in-green_ykvgswa.jpg.jpegThe idea and hope of the twin soul relationship is that there be a reunion, reunion being the establishment of the relationship for good with no more separation cycles. But, sometimes, reunion doesn’t happen. Why the twins do not reunite depends on the couple, some are only meant to meet, love, learn, and separate.

After separation, there is pain, confusion, and fear. The thing is, the twins unite everything about themselves. Whether they are physically united or spiritually united, the twins combine into each other. Twins become one. And when they separate there is chaos within them, because suddenly a part of themselves is missing…again.

There is a severe disorientation and a desperation to run back to each other, to return to what is familiar. And when that is not possible, it is painful, like something tearing deep within. The twins can feel their souls tearing, separating. Their souls are literally tearing inside of them, their energies are separating, their consciousness are separating. It is as much a physical event as a spiritual event. Some might get physically ill after a separation, like a cold, a fever, or stomach issues, fatigue, basically small ailments.

The twin soul relationship adds depth to reality, but it also reveals the superficiality and ephemeral aspects of life. Twins learn the value of love while also learning about the transient nature of all relationships. If the twins manage to learn more spiritual knowledge, they may realize the meaning of life; the true meaning of life, not just their own. All this knowledge changes perspective, changes what is real and meaningful, and as long as the twins are together in some form of a relationship, these hard and cold truths are bearable. Friendships are not so important when with the twin because the twin fills up all of the space in the heart of the other. The twin become friend, lover, guide, teacher, and foe.

Separation forces each twin to face the world on their own with their newly found knowledge. Not only that, but each twin is now changed. They are not the same as when the relationship first started and that is the problem. The twins will be confused, they won’t know what to do. It is like being lost, being in an unfamiliar city with no family or friends, and not being able to ask for directions because you don’t know where you are going. Soon after, or immediately after, separation everything will feel empty. The twins will feel empty inside. Though they are not empty within, the missing part of the other will feel like a gaping hole inside. What makes it more difficult is that though the twins are separating or separated, their pain will be multiplied because the other is also suffering. They will still feel each other’s pain until the separation is complete. It is a process that can take days or weeks, or even months. Some might react to the whole situation with anger. A twin might feel angry with himself or herself, with the world, or with the Gods/God, and with the twin. Life will seem like a chore. It will not have meaning; it’s just something you have to do.

And then the questions begin, the doubts may double. Was it ever real? Are twins a thing? Did I really experience all of that? Each twin will have to find the strength within to figure out the answers and to find their way back to themselves.

 

Namaste.

 

How to Communicate with Your Twin Soul

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“Old Pay Phone” by Alex

Twin soul, twin flames, twin rays, come together in different ways. Some twins meet physically and have what we can call a normal relationship. Other twins come to know of each other through dreams, visions, or just don’t move into a physical relationship just yet. And lastly, there are the twins that are separated by worlds, literally. There are instances where one twin is in the spiritual plane and the other is here with the rest of us. This happens when one of the twins ascends before the other. Regardless of a twin’s situation, twins always manage to communicate somehow. For every different scenario, the method of communication is the same; love.

Twin souls are the same soul and they are united by an eternal love. They are each other’s essence. It is through love that the twins can communicate. It may sound cheesy. It may sound like a cliché, but love has no bounds. The love that twin souls feel for each other is the highest love there is although it may not always fully manifest. This type of love holds all of the loves. Communication between the twins happens naturally and it grows gradually.

Dreams. For those beginning their twin soul paths, dreams of the other twin are common. Maybe you see him or her walking ahead in a crowd. Maybe you have conversations. The subconscious is the first to recognize our desires and love brings with it very strong desires. Those desires manifest in dreams and although most of the dream matter, by matter I mean what happens in the dream, is unrelated or foggy to the memory, the communications with the other twin have an unshakable realness to them. So, how do I communicate with my twin through dreams more? Remember that this is a natural part of the relationship, being able to communicate with someone who is not in the same room and without words is natural (unlike other types of relationships). As the intensity of your love for this person grows and his or her love for you grows, communication will grow. This means that dreams of one another will become more frequent. As your conscious mind is more and more occupied with thoughts, fantasizing, and processing feelings for this other person, your subconscious will begin to open up. Once your subconscious, once you fully embrace your love, you’ll be able to reach deeper and find that love connection. It is like Journey to the Center of the Earth. You are drilling deeper and deeper, walking through caves that are dark and hidden beneath the bustling everyday-activities, until you suddenly hit a soft spot on the ground. Once there, you will hesitate. Your heart will beat faster. you’ll tell yourself you’ve gone insane. You’ll want to go back up into the light, into what is familiar. You’ll want to leave things as they are and remain in your comfort zone. But that unignorable thing won’t let you. That pulling you feel will make you jump down into the unknown. And then suddenly you’ll see that you’re falling from a bright blue sky. Suddenly you’ll see a whole new world.

But if you want clearer dreams, or say you have something specific you want to say to your twin, what do you do? The simplest and easiest thing you can do is will it. Every time you go to bed, wish to communicate with your twin. Wish to have dreams of this other person. If your partner feels the same, then you will meet through dreams. Something amazing has to happen for you both to see each other and that is you both have to be in the same sleep cycle. Sleep comes in cycles and the one that allows for dream activity is called REM. But don’t worry about it. I’m just pointing out the fact that once you establish a connection you begin to move in sync through the world.

It often happens that we are not in control of ourselves in our dreams. Through meditation, we can gain control of our dreams. Meditate for ten to fifteen minutes before letting yourself go to sleep. You can either focus your meditation on your twin or you can work on silencing that inner chatter. So long as you meditate, your abilities will grow. To enhance your meditation, add a clear quartz crystal. Program the crystal to bring you mental clarity and to allow you to communicate with your twin.

After communicating through dreams the next level is telepathy. Telepathy is hard to describe. You might be called insane if you describe your experiences to someone. But some say that humans used to communicate through telepathy in the time before language like animals still do. You know that voice you hear inside your head? You know that voice, your own voice? The voice of your conscious? Silence it. Learn to silence it so that the voice of his or her conscious can be heard. Telepathy is more about listening then speaking, at least, in the beginning. For those that have met in the physical and have had a reunion, the telepathic voice will be his or her real voice. Again, each situation is different and this type of telepathy is called aural telepathy. For those who have not yet physically met, the telepathy voice will sound different. Sure, you’ll recognize your own voice but it will feel different, it will sound different.

How to initiate telepathic communication? It will happen naturally. Again, desire and will are what bridge the connection. That intense need to speak to this person, to connect with her or him is what will bring this about. This is why the twin soul relationship is different from all other types of relationships, because telepathy happens only with the belief in the spiritual and through practicing that belief. Meditation is the most effective tool to achieve this type of communication.

Sex. Lastly, there is sex. The twins have a deep, primordial desire to be united. This desire manifests through intense sexual desire, through the intense need to be one. Here is where sex magick or Tantra come into play. Regardless of whether the twins are physically together, the twins exchange energy. At the point of orgasm, focus on your message to the other person. Keep it simple, not whole paragraph. It is more effective if you focus on the love you feel for that person and send it to them, than if you try to have a whole conversation. (Read more here. For a guided exercise click here.)

Twins can say a lot to each other in just moments. As the connection grows communication will get better and easier, to the point that you can have full conversations. Unfortunately, and I have to tell you this, there are laws that we all have to abide by. These laws of the spirit world are mysterious and place a limit to how much you can communicate. Either way, twins will insist. Twins are kind of the rebels of the spirit world. They won’t be stopped.

Namaste.

Twin Souls: The Physical Signs

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When you meet your twin soul there are not only spiritual signs but physical signs too. Because of the constant and intense exchange of energy between the twins, certain changes begin to happen between both of them.

Physical Sign 1: Gestures/Mannerisms

Twin souls are really two independent souls, two whole souls, and together they form a supersoul. Because they are two physical beings with distinct lives and histories, each has his and her own way of moving and being. Each person has his or her own way of walking, speaking, chewing, dancing, and so on. One of the first things that happen in a twin soul relationship is that they begin to pick up the other’s gestures. At first these changes are so small and subtle that neither realizes that they are doing. The changes are gradual. For example, let’s say that he likes to lean his weight on his right side, put his hands in his pant’s pockets, look over his left shoulder, when waiting. Then, as the time passes and you two get closer together, you start to lean your weight on your right side. Nothing major, nearly everyone does this, but you used to stand evenly on both legs when waiting. Another example: she has this gesture she does where she lifts her right eyebrow at certain thoughts, (impressed, annoyed, whatever). Then one day, a friend or family member stares at you strangely. You ask why. Well, because you’re raising your right eyebrow at him or her. Maybe you were not aware that you were doing that.

These changes, better yet, these exchanges between the twins is due to the loss of identity. Each one is melting into each other, become more and more one. Of course, because each one has a physical body and we live in a physical world, there is a limit to how much the twins can physically become one.

conscious-connectionPhysical Sign 2: Lights

This physical sign starts to come in the relationship once has it reached the spiritual aspect. Once the twins have connected in a spiritual manner, meaning that they meditate or dream of each other, lights begin to appear. These lights are not in the physical world (occasionally they are, but for simplicity, we’ll focus on these particular lights). At this stage, the twin soul relationship has been happening for awhile now. At this stage, the twins are so connected spiritually, emotionally, and mentally that they can communicate with each other without physical speaking or writing. This means that they can either know each other’s feelings without verbally/physically communicating them, or that they communicate through dreams, that they meet through meditative states. One way that these strange lights manifest is when the eyes are closed. Many on spiritual forums share similar experiences, some of them not in twin soul relationships but in the middle of a spiritual awakening. It is often described as white light, strings of white light, and so on. Imagine being half asleep and suddenly lightning flashing in through your window. You quickly open your eyes but there is nothing there; not a cloud and maybe you don’t even have a window in your room. If a neurologist reads this he will probably say we all have a neurological situation going on, but this is the light of the soul. It could be the light of your own soul, your own third eye opening, or the light of your partner’s soul. It could also be the light of the spiritual world, of the higher planes, even of higher beings. Whatever it is, when it is experienced with a partner with whom you have spiritual and deep love connection, it is a sign of a twin soul.

Physical Sign 3: You Become Actual Twins!

It is weird, but you actually start to look like each other. This third sign mixes with the first because they are, in a way, happening simultaneously. Maybe this manifests in your choice of clothes. Colors match, and not intentionally. Smiles begin to seem similar. The way you speak also sounds the same. You finish each other’s sentences. When it comes to physical, biological aspects of the body, the eyes reflect the oneness of the twins. It does not matter that the eye color of the twins does not match, what matches is the spirit within and it is perceived as being the same in both. Perhaps the oldest twins, the ones that have met many times before in other lives, will have physical similarities (for example: similar facial structures). Aside from the physical similarities, the twins begin to move as one. They begin to think almost in the same way. At the highest point of the relationship, where both are the closest they could possibly be to being one, they think and feel as one. But because they are two individuals and are regarded as being so similar they are named twins.

In any other type of relationship there can be some of these physical signs. Soul mates can certainly begin to dress similarly or finish each other’s sentences. It is the spiritual aspect, the spiritual wisdom and knowledge that the twins have and gain through each other that differentiates it from any other relationship. Also, soul mates do not tend to experience spiritual lights, telepathy, or meetings in the spiritual world. There is something of these categories in all relationships because they are all part of the same thing: love.

 

 

Namaste.